Seven seconds of style that last the evening…
What can be better than the first date that flows as naturally as breathing? The timing is right, the location is superb, the conversation is stimulating and a good laugh is in place too. It all seems like the stars just align. Yes it could be true that chemistry is something that may be controlled by some higher forces we have no particular say in. However, other things can be refined and worked on. Fashion is exactly one of those things.
They say first impression takes seven seconds. Of course you have a date so there are at least few hours (hopefully) to fail or succeed. However, a good start is still a good start. So make those first seconds count. What is the primary thing that can be achieved in such a short moment? Possibly it is an impression of titivation. For instance, unwrinkled clothes. Too basic? Well strong base makes for a solid structure. Remember, your date still has plenty of time to admire the details and the ‘décor’.
I suggest we skip the debate over Smart vs. Smart- casual vs. Trainers and move right over to the tricky subject of colour for the first date. Noble shades are in trend. Check if your closet is well stocked with dark blues, earthly browns and pastels.
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Alternatively, no one cancelled black. Ten to one, black is the best short-cut for an effective appearance. Recall what Japanese fashion designer Yohji Ymamoto said: Black is modest and arrogant at the same time. Black is lazy and easy but mysterious. Striving for those adjectives will certainly provoke an intrigue.
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Although, if complete void of colour sounds too uninspiring, adding some to the accents such as scarves, ties, belts or even socks would solve the problem. I am convinced that socks should never be underestimated. Dark red with grey ensembles, or bright ochres with the blue ones. This shows you know how to balance and that you don’t take yourself to seriously. Look into Supreme or UNIQLO styling for a masterly visual reference of colour mixing.
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Ultimately, best dressed men and the real risk- takers should also consider patterns and prints. Let’s inspect some of Spring-Summer 2013 Menswear collections. We have timid florals from Raf Simons, complex geometries from Burberry, animal prints with an urban twist from Kenzo and even hand craft and embroidery from Phillip Lim. It seems there is more than enough to choose from depending on your personality, mood or current weather.
Raf Simons
Burberry
Philip Lim
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Saying all that, the last and the most significant equipment that should be considered is the ability to be yourself with the way you use fashion. Aside from the great look, clothes should bring the sense of confidence and calm. This way rather than worrying whether the bow tie (you probably never wore before) is in place, you can consecrate on a person in front of you. Wear a charming smile and do not overemphasise your fashion efforts. You’ve got the killer style card up your sleeve right? Or maybe even a few. She will know it and will surely want to see them in a near future. Besides, the stars are always on the side of those who know what effort is, but also those who know when enough is enough.
Posted By: Tess